December 27, 2024 | Written by Miranda Stewart

Elopements are a celebration of intimacy and love — a day focused solely on the two of you and your unique story. My favorite thing about elopements is the flexibility, allowing you to craft a day that’s entirely your own. To make your elopement super special, personalizing your elopement day is key. From meaningful props to one-of-a-kind activities, I’m going to share a few ideas and inspiration to infuse your personality into your elopement and create memories that truly reflect you and your love!

1. Choose a Meaningful Location

Your elopement location sets the tone for the entire day and tells a story about your journey together!

How to Pick the Perfect Spot:
- Choose a place that holds sentimental value, like where you first met, your favorite hiking trail, or a spot with a view you both adore.
- Consider landscapes that align with your personalities — mountains for the adventurous, beaches for the laid-back, or a cityscape for urban vibes.
- For an added touch of personalization, include cultural or family connections, such as a location tied to your heritage.
- If you’re drawn to new adventures, pick a location that embodies your spirit as a couple. Maybe it’s a cliffside overlooking the ocean, a hidden forest trail, or an exotic destination that’s been on your bucket list.

2. Incorporate Meaningful Props

Props can add layers of depth and symbolism to your elopement day, making them feel even more personal and special! These little details not only enhance the aesthetics of your day but also create memories that are even more meaningful and can bring a touch of sentimentality!

Ideas for Props:
- Family Heirlooms: A vintage piece of jewelry, a locket with a loved one’s photo, or a handmade quilt.
- Adventure Essentials: If you’re outdoorsy, bring your hiking boots, a backpack, or even a kayak for unique action shots.
- Letters or Vows: Reading letters to each other or holding handwritten vows adds an emotional and personal touch.
- Pets: If you have a furry friend, include them in your elopement — it’s a surefire way to create adorable and heartfelt moments.

3. Dress to Reflect Your Style

Your outfits are more than just clothing; they’re an extension of your personality and who you are! While the classic white dress certainly has it’s charm, it doesn’t mean it’s the only way to go. Your clothing should feel like you! If you’re a thrifting junkie like me, don’t be afraid to mix and match thrifted treasures. And if comfort and practicality are your priority, chic, neutral-toned separates could be the way to go. The key is to choose something that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and authentically yourself!

How to Make It Yours:
- Opt for attire that reflects your individuality — like a non-traditional dress, a suit with a bold twist, or casual outfits for a laid-back vibe.
- Consider adding accessories that tell a story, such as a family brooch, a custom jacket, or colorful shoes that match your wedding theme.
- Think about functionality — flowy dresses look stunning in the wind, and layers can be practical and stylish for colder settings.

4. Personalized Details & Unique Touches

Adding thoughtful details to your day help elevate your photos from beautiful images to meaningful memories that truly represent who you guys are and your connection to one another!

Ideas for Personalization:
- Write a note to each other before the ceremony and exchange them during the session.
- Create custom signage with your wedding date or meaningful quotes.
- Incorporate florals that have symbolic meaning or represent your favorite season or colors.
- Use personalized vow books, rings, or keepsakes that you’ll cherish forever.

5. Create a Timeline That Feels Natural

Your elopement day should feel relaxed and reflective of who you are. Unlike traditional weddings, they give you the freedom to design a day that’s truly about you and your love. Having a flexible but well-thought-out timeline ensures your elopement feels natural, relaxed, and meaningful!

Planning Tips:
- Allow plenty of time to soak in the moment, whether it’s watching the sunrise together or enjoying a leisurely meal.
- Plan breaks to pause and take in your surroundings without feeling rushed.
- End the day with a meaningful activity, like dancing under the stars or cozying up by a fire.

6. Work with a Photographer Who Gets You

Your photographer plays a huge role in capturing the essence of your elopement. It’s so important to find someone who truly understands you, your story, and your vision — someone who can make you feel at ease, capture your authentic emotions, and deliver images that resonate with who you are!

What to Look For:
- Choose someone whose style resonates with you and who values authentic storytelling.
- Share your story and vision with your photographer so they can bring it to life.
- Trust their expertise to document your day in a way that feels organic and true to you.

Your elopement experience should be as amazing as the photos!. By incorporating personal touches and meaningful locations, you’ll create a visual narrative that you’ll cherish forever. If you’re ready to plan an elopement day, let’s connect and craft something unforgettable together! Let’s Elope!

x Miranda